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We are thinking about getting a second dog. We have a 2-year-old Labrador that is neutered and loves to play with other dogs at the off-leash park. My husband wants to get another large dog, but I would like a smaller one that I can pick up and hold in my arms. We don't want a puppy (been there, done that, don't want to do it again) and would like a dog that is between one and 3 years old. Should we get a male or female, and do we need to get a dog that is the same size as Toby? What else should we be thinking about?

Looking for more canine love in North York

 

Dear Looking,

Adding a second dog to your family can double the love, but before we begin matchmaking, you need to consider what else will be doubled: vetting, food, supplies and training classes, to name just a few. Do you travel with Toby? Do you have enough room in the new compact car you just bought to replace your gas guzzling SUV? If you board Toby, boarding costs will double as will grooming and hiring a dog sitter/walker.

Do you have the time to acclimate and train a new dog? Are the kids going back to school in September? Will you have time for fall dog training classes, or will you have to juggle hockey, business travel, homework, dance lessons and karate?

Does Toby have any undesired behaviours that should be addressed and modified prior to bringing a new dog onto the scene?

Just because Toby loves to play with other dogs at the off-leash park is not reason enough to acquire a second dog. Playing with other dogs at the park and living in the same house are two different things. Another dog should not be used to replace the quality time you should be spending with Toby. Welcoming a new canine family member should be a well-thought-out decision that encompasses all the same considerations you applied when you adopted Toby.

If you have covered all of the above (and then some), here's food for thought on gender, size and a few other goodies.

It was once thought that opposite altered sexes were better suited, but that is not always the case. Dogs are individuals with unique personalities, experiences and genetics.

For example, it is more important to match Toby's temperament, energy level and play style than to limit your search to one gender or the other.

As far as size goes, you will have to keep your expectations realistic and make sure your new dog is not put in harm's way should you decide to adopt a smaller dog. What I would suggest is you take note of which dogs Toby buddies up with and enjoys playing with at the park and watch his style of play. This will give you good information when you start your search.

As always, I am going to suggest you start that search at a shelter or reputable dog rescue. You can preview dogs that need homes at www.petfinder.com. Provide them with a profile your family, lifestyle and Toby's temperament.

If you schedule a meet-up, bring Toby with you. You may want to meet several dogs before making your decision or you may want to meet one dog more than once. Take input from shelter/rescue personnel seriously; they have the experience, have seen many dog meet-ups and want what is best for everyone: their dog, your dog, your family and ultimately a lasting relationship.